Dressing Up Isn't Dead

How to Look Like a Million Bucks

Look sharp for the dressiest time of the year (without going broke).

Tuxedo fitting at Suitsupply.

Whether it's a winter wedding, an elegant New Year's Eve party, or the annual charity gala to which you give generously, we're entering the thick of black tie season. These are the occasions that call for a fresh shave and a well-tailored tuxedo. If you're a reader of Valet., you likely take your style seriously, but for even the most sartorially conscious gentleman, this can be a tricky look to pull off. You want to look crisp—classic yet cool—not like an unwitting dude stuffed into any standard penguin suit.

Suitsupply Navy Shawl Collar Tuxedo

Navy shawl collar tuxedo,
$599 by Suitsupply

Suitsupply Classic Peak Lapel Tuxedo

Classic peak label tuxedo,
$569 by Suitsupply

Suitsupply Navy Shawl Collar Tuxedo

Navy shawl collar tuxedo,
$599 by Suitsupply

Suitsupply Classic Peak Lapel Tuxedo

Classic peak label tuxedo,
$569 by Suitsupply

Suitsupply Navy Shawl Collar Tuxedo

Navy shawl collar tuxedo,
$599 by Suitsupply

Suitsupply Classic Peak Lapel Tuxedo

Classic peak label tuxedo,
$569 by Suitsupply

Truth be told, things haven't really changed in the last 50-60 years: dark pants, dark jacket with satin or silk lapels, a black bow-tie (more on this in a moment), a pristine white shirt, and patent leather shoes. Yet, many an otherwise handsome garçon find ways to bungle the look. They key is finding a quality suit that makes you look and feel like a million bucks without having to drop too much money on a look that, in all practicality, only gets a few nights out a year. That's where our good friends at Suitsupply and The Black Tux come in to save the day.

Suitsupply tuxedo fitting

The author getting fitted for his tux with Suitsupply's in-house tailor.

Suitsupply tuxedo fitting

The author getting fitted for his tux with Suitsupply's in-house tailor

Suitsupply tuxedo fitting

The author getting fitted for his tux with Suitsupply's in-house tailor

I was recently invited by Suitsupply to visit their Georgetown store in Washington D.C. and be custom-fitted for one of their eveningwear collections. From start to finish and top to bottom, the service was impeccable and tailoring exquisite. While I chose one of the most classic of black tie looks, their Black Tie Package comes with your choice of navy or black tuxedo, a pair of patent leather lace-up shoes, a silk bowtie, white double-cuffed shirt and studs all for the price of $799. Go to your local Saks Fifth Avenue, pick up those same items, and you're looking at close to $2,000.

The pictures you see here are of their gray wool tuxedo with black accents. A bit bold for the majority of us, but if you're looking for a statement piece and are eschewing the navy tuxedo, this is a great alternative. Back to mastering the look, though. With a standardized uniform like the tuxedo, the devil is in the details. And the details here are in the tailoring and accessories.

Tailoring

When everyone looks the same, you can always notice when someone has done it properly and someone hasn't. The jacket should be snug, but not too snug (just as comfortable buttoned as you are unbuttoned), with just a touch of shirt cuff peeking through at the wrist. The pants should be a more classic fit than you've probably seen in the magazines recently. Ask your tailor for a ⅛" to ¼" break in the legs.

Accessories

Vintage cufflinks,
$12 at Etsy

Vintage cufflinks,
$12 at Etsy

Got a vintage pair of studs from Grandpa? Or your significant other gave you a brand-new pair of cufflinks? Wear 'em! These are the spots to add some personal flair to the look, and can be used as a conversation starter while in line at the bar. We've seen people using a standard necktie in lieu of the bowtie, and while this might've been a stylish look at one time, we can unequivocally say this is a no-no. Black tie attire = bowtie. No further discussion gents.

A Smarter Rental

Maybe you're not ready to splurge on a tuxedo. Perhaps you want to switch up your style from event to event. Need one in a jiff for a last-minute invite? The Black Tux is a reliable and affordable online tux and suit rental operation. And its fashion director, Brice Pattison, has built a statement-making collection for 2017 and 2018. Channel the leading men rocking bold tuxes on the red carpet and take your black tie game to the next level with these elegant and elevated options.

The Black Tux Black and Tartan Tuxedo Rental

Black and tartan tuxedo,
rent for $125
at The Black Tux

The Black Tux Double Breasted Tuxedo Rental

Double breasted tuxedo,
rent for $125
at The Black Tux

The Black Tux Black Corduroy Tuxedo Rental

Black corduroy tuxedo,
rent for $125
at The Black Tux

Our Rules for Black Tie

1

"Black tie optional" means you should wear black tie

2

One should choose to be overdressed rather than underdressed

3

Bow tie only = no neck ties

4

You want a sleek, slim watch with a bezel that lays flat on the wrist

5

If it's below 60°, going sockless looks ridiculous

6

Suspenders or cummerbunds? One or the other (or neither)

7

Avoid pocket bulge: one credit card, your I.D. and a little cash

8

You need at least two drinks to untie the bow and unbutton that top button