Like so often in life, when it comes to being romantic, it's the little things that matter. You don't need to concoct these epic overtures to make your partner feel appreciated or adored. "Many guys are afraid to do romantic things because they think it will be lame or they'll get laughed at, or it won't go over as well as they had hoped" says relationship coach Jordan Gray. "And so they don't even try, which is a shame." Because even the smallest actions—writing a note or giving a back rub—will have a lasting impact because they're genuine and more importantly, unexpected. Surprise, according to Gray, is absolutely essential in your romantic gesture. Another important consideration he says is calibration. Don't ask yourself "What could I do that would seem romantic?" Instead, think about simple ways to show your appreciation and thoughtfulness. Herewith, six simple gestures you could do today that will make your partner feel the love.